Sacred sexuality

Stop wasting time looking for the perfect solution in sex, instead work on creating the perfect love.

To create sacred sexuality it means practicing growing love were we use ourselves to receive and give greater amounts of love through our own spiritual love and growth.

To create a deep love effect in your relationship, find a way or ways to fulfill your partners sexual desires and vice versa, hard work definitely pays off.. and when we learn to compromise others needs in the sensual relationship it makes for a delicious dish that is served best, hot!

Create the environment

Wether the intimacy is planned or it is a spur of the moment rendezvous. Intentions and connection is what makes for great intimacy. So lay out the best and softest sheets, light those candles, use that massage oil and if you feeling a bit peckish nibble on some chocolate, it never hurt anyone.

Has it, lol.


Connect to your inner self. Your more inner self, do not treat your sexual needs as dirty or bad. It is a deep rooted inner feeling that enhances your own sexual experience. When you are able to know what you enjoy, the experience can be something so beautiful for both partners. Learning to self love and accept is a big part of having a great sex life.

If you remember certain times were the love making was amazing, then talk about that as a couple and try to incorporate some of those items in your time. If a nibble or a sensual touch is what you crave, let it be heard. The more you talk about your likes after a love making event the better it is for you relationship to only grow. The two most important people are sharing one of the most important aspects of a strong loving relationship so never be afraid to say what you like, or what you would like more of!

You cant expect your partner to know what you want if you don’t speak up.

Follow your intuition

Allow yourself to move with the motion, go with the flow if you say so, let it be unique whenever it can be. Do not allow yourselves to fall into the same old..

Being aware and having your full attention on yourself and partner is what is going to allow you to stay in the feeling of each moment. Stay connected and enjoy the time.


Lay in the after glow and share the moment. Whether it was a new one or something you finally mastered. Enjoy the growth of your experiences. Connect, grow and love.

Embrace the moment and forget the rest. There is a time for life and a time for love.

Things to do after intimacy?

Experts suggest that couples who maintain physical contact after being intimate creates a bond between the couple even as the day continues and keeps the intimacy between couples strong. Woman tend to feel vulnerable after sex and the time spent cuddling with us makes us feel loved.

Post-sex intimacy is just as important to a women’s pleasure as foreplay.

study from author Robin Milhausen, Ph.D.

Seems because a women’s (and men’s) bodies are flooded with oxytocin—the bonding hormone—after sex, making them crave more affection, he says.

Couples who even sleep in the nude have reported that they feel more connected to their partner and are in better moods when they wake up.

Here are three things you should try after you are intimate with your partner to keep the love flowing..


In the after glow of your love making. Take the time to talk about the encounter and what you loved about it. True, it might take a few tries till you get the flow right as not everyone is a talker. But this after talk, allows you as a couple to continue with the pleasant feelings that you had and build up to a better sex life in the future. As i mentoned in my previous post the more you communicate in your relationship the better you as a couple will become.

Push out distractions

Leave the phones on the bed side for 10 minutes, your followers and friends can wait for you. What cant wait is the special connection you need to hold after your intimate. Look into each other’s eyes, rub his stomach whilst he caresses your back as you lay in the moment. Who are you rushing around for. Lay back and indulge your moment. Cherish the time.

Shower together (When possible)

If we can get dirty together we can get clean together too. Take the opportunity when you can to spend the extra time together to just clean off and bond. Wash his back let him wash your hair. The smaller things is what we will miss if we do not take control of them now.

Love to all!!